While everyone has insecurities or flaws they wish they could change, you have to feel okay about yourself from the start for it to be a positive,...
Read more In order to date successfully and find a good relationship, you have to feel good (enough) about yourself.
I can tell you from a guy’s perspective that when a woman says things like: “Why didn’t you call? Those kinds of statements will immediately put a guy on the defensive rather than motivating him to change and he’ll probably withdraw emotionally as a result… I would say the core reason of this is that it attacks a guy’s sense of freedom and feeling of acknowledgment. Well, when a woman starts down this chain of “Why didn’t you…” it feels to a guy as if she isn’t noticing all of the other things he is doing for a relationship. It’s perfectly normal and healthy to want a relationship with all the good qualities: connection, chemistry, understanding, intimacy, attentiveness and on and on.
My insights are based on tens of thousands of hours of clinical experience and massive amounts of research into and work with men and relationships.I’ve helped hundreds of thousands of women find love and create the partnership of their dreams…even the women who had totally given up are now happily married.Trying to see a situation from your spouse's perspective is supposed to be a good thing, right?You get a snapshot of his or her feelings and thus can be more understanding and empathetic.