This doesn’t mean that they’re not shallow (they are), but rather, that they are consistent and reasonable in terms of “rating” women’s looks.
Like in a normal bell curve, 5% of the women were found to be the least attractive and 5% were found to be the most attractive, with most women falling in the middle 90%.
After coaching women for many years, I already suspected this, but this was a stark realization when you see just how few men you even find to be average looking. Ok Cupid reports that the most attractive women still receive 5X more email than average women and 28X more email than unattractive women.
Literally 2/3 of male messages go to the best looking 1/3 of women.
Women (and men) don’t necessarily compliment you a lot.
I’m going to do my best to summarize– and explain what you can learn from it. 1) Men have a very fair assessment of women’s overall attractiveness.
As Ok Cupid observed, the medical term for this is “male pattern madness”.
4) Women engage in similar behavioral patterns, just not as extreme.
This brings me to the burning question: Are you hot and don’t even realize it? Because you’re all beautiful in your own wonderful and unique ways. Here are a few signs you may be way more attractive than you think: People look up when you walk by.
Have you noticed that when you walk by someone, people kind of look up at you? You turn heads because you’re attractive just by being who you are.